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5 Ways To Make A Relationship Last Longer

We all love our significant other but there are a lot of things that prevent the two of you from seeing each other as often as you would like.  For example, you could have work and your husband also has work so you could probably only have a few minutes for each other.  The worst case scenario would be your husband coming home from work only to find you fast asleep because you were tired from work.  If you love him that much then you should try to see him more often because if that does not happen then one or both parties may find it best to end the relationship.  If you think that should not happen then here are 5 tips to prevent that:

1) Make Love

If both of you have not seen each other for quite some time then there is a chance you miss making love to one another.  You can even go to a cheap motel just to do that deed so it can be a little more private if there are a lot of people living at home.

2) Do something Extraordinary

Doing something that is a little out of this world can boost your love for one another.  It can be something both of you have never done before like going on a sky diving trip or journeying down to the waters of a far away cave.  It can be an adventure both of you won’t forget for a long time and that will make him fall in love with you all over again.

3) Do something Special Regularly

It can do wonders if you do something that makes him feel happy more often. An example would be you can cook him his favorite meal or you can buy him his favorite magazine since you know he does not have the time to do that.  It does not have to be something out of this world but it just have to be something he really appreciates and you know he would since you have been with each other for a long time.

4) Do something great for someone Close to your Partner

When you enter a relationship with someone, you must realize you have to be close with his friends and relatives.  If his parents are living with you then you can take them out to dinner or buy them something they have always wanted like a new wheelchair.  If you do that, then your partner will certainly appreciate it.

5) Write a Love Note or Poem

There is nothing like being sweet to your partner since it works every time especially if he is in a down mood. If you realize that then you must know you are the only person who can cheer him up.  It does not hurt to become creative with poems and love letters since they never get old and they always work even if it is just the start of an everlasting relationship between two young adults.

Savannah Ellis is a relationship therapist coach from Las Vegas. She does affair recovery coaching and sharing an advice for cheaters and their partners on how to survive an infidelity.